We
are now in to March and the new years resolutions that were made are likely to
feel like a very distant memory. Forming
new habits seems to get more of a focus as
we move in to a new year when we have had time to reflect on the past year and
how we want things to move forward. Sometimes it is bad habits that we
are looking to change such as not delegating effectively or not being
drawn on to the detail of tasks rather than looking at the big picture.
Even
if we talk about wanting to develop
new behaviours and habits it is all too easy
that when life takes hold that we can lose sight of our goals that we had set for ourselves.
This issue is not just for individuals
who had great intentions to do something different but have succumbed to the
power of the habit. Actually habit is something, which allows us to get
through our day meaning that we can do things we have done before with relative
ease. Although when we fall in to bad habits that we want to replace it
takes hard work and practice to change something and replace a behaviour that has
become second nature in to something else.
I have read a range of texts on how
long it takes for a new behaviour to become
automatic ranging from 28 days, 66 days or
at least 2 months or even repeating something 10,000 times if you listen to
Malcolm Gladwell the author of Outliers the story of success. Whilst it
is difficult to put a definitive time period on how long it takes to develop
new leadership behaviours and habits what is clear is that there are a number
of factors which can increase the likelihood of success.
Here are a list of 5 tips, which will increase
the chances of employees developing new leadership habits and behaviours.
1.
YOU have influence over what behaviours you want to develop this will in
turn build more commitment than if someone else give you feedback on what you
‘should’ be development
2.
Share your goals with others this will build light peer pressure in
that knowing that others may ask you how you are progressing with your goals
3.
Set yourself a clear target on what you want to achieve if
this is a current behaviour that you want to improve think about giving
yourself an assessment of where you are now
4.
Imagine the steps that you will put in place to achieve your goal and
articulate what this would look, sound and feel like when you are demonstrating
the new behaviour
5.
Go ahead try a different tact or try a different
approach. It is easy to do something that we are comfortable with but
much harder to do something different and Practice, Practice and Practice. Actively seek out feedback on how you are progressing.
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